The eight kootas in plain language
Varna, vashya, tara, yoni, graha maitri, gana, bhakoot and nadi each measure a facet of compatibility — temperament, health progeny, emotional rhythm and more. A total above eighteen is traditionally considered acceptable; above twenty-four is favourable.
Yet a high score alone does not guarantee shanti grihastha. Low scores in nadi or bhakoot demand deeper chart comparison, not automatic cancellation.
Mangal dosha and misconceptions
Mangal in certain houses from lagna, Chandra or Shukra creates kuja dosha — often cited to block marriages. In practice, cancellation rules, age of marriage and matching with another manglik chart modify the effect greatly.
Fear-based rejection hurts families. A learned matchmaker explains whether the dosha is strong, cancelled, or manageable through vivah vidhi and upaya.
Questions for your Jyotishi
Ask about seventh lord strength in both charts, navamsha lagna compatibility, and whether current dashas support union or delay.
Muhurat selection after milan is equally vital — a good match on an inauspicious tithi still deserves a shubh lagna for the saat phere.